Annoying little man

Finding happiness when someone won’t leave you alone. 

     Have you ever had to be around someone that annoyed you so bad that you just wanted to strangle them? Your waking thoughts were focused on how to get this person out of your life, even wishing on their demise or some other misfortune. Many of us have had to deal with that person you just couldn’t get along with. This actually happens all the time and do you want to know something crazy? Nature does the same thing. Some plants will not grow with others. Walnut trees, pine trees, ferns and sunflowers are among the plants that release harmful chemicals to prevent other plants from growing too close to them. Apparently nature (we are a part of nature) is not designed for perfect harmony amongst all things. The universal law of duality states that all things have an opposite. Sometimes opposites will never get along. So how do you deal with the frustration of annoying coworkers, friends, or family? Great question. Unfortunately the answer is not so simple as just ignore them. I have tried this method and although it does work, it is not always so easy. 

     Let me tell you about an experience I had over a three year period. My office hired a new investigator. Let’s call him Jpmack1911. He was a short funny looking guy, about 5’6″, 30 years old and already bald. Loved his guns he claimed, as well as his race. He was the most insecure person I have ever met. He appeared to have downs syndrome, and when he was hired everyone assumed he was special and we were not allowed to criticize the many mistakes that he made, or the odd way that he behaved.

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     JP began copying things that I would say in the office as if he said them originally, trying to fit in. He began trying to dress like me, he would even tell lies about his kids, that he didn’t have, so that he could fit in. After a while he was so annoying i couldn’t even speak when he was around. He was not just a thorn on a personal level, but he had no business being in a position of authority, he was not equipped mentally to handle the responsibilities. Behind his back he was the joke of the department and the store. However no one was allowed to reprimand, guide, or counsel him. Many people coddled him due to his odd looks and behaviors.

The super unfortunate thing was that I had to sit next to him for about six hours a day. Listen to his lies, listen to him trying to tell me about his avid scuba diving days, when in fact he went on a snorkel trip, once, maybe. It was three years of hell on earth for me. The one time I did call him an idiot for not knowing his job after 3 years, I was sent home from work for the day. Crazy…

Jp would even stalk me on my websites and social media, leaving bad misleading reviews, he is probably reading this.. Hi… (although one of his reviews was slightly accurate, and helped me rework my advertising… ThThanks Jn)  When I think back and try to figure out how I stayed sane, and not try to kill him or myself for that matter. I discovered that I could spend my days researching natural foods, medicines, nature, and positive thought. I was fortunate enough to have a smartphone that allowed me to focus on my own interests instead of the annoying guy next to me. My escape from reality was self-education. I was able to learn a lot about nature and how it balances our lives. I learned how plants grow, and how they ensure our good health. I learned that nature has healing powers I studied positive thought mentors like Tony Robbins and Brendon Burchard. while jp watched videos of car crashes I was improving many areas of my life through self education. This period of time could have been devastating to my life, and there were many days that I felt like I should just give up. I couldn’t let one person dictate how my life was going to be. I had a choice, I could focus on myself, grow my knowledge base, or focus on the negativity. I was able to move my life forward by adapting to a negative situation by setting an intention to learn, until jpmack1911 was removed from my life. Luckily jp quit working with me, and my emotions became easier to control.

Once the large negative block was taken out of my life, I could relax my mind and I was able to look back on the experience realizing that had it not been for jp, I would never have studied as hard as I did. That little lying, annoying, man was actually a blessing in my life. How crazy is that? What I felt was three years of hell on earth was in fact heaven on earth. Keep your eyes and mind open to what the universe is telling you. Seems there is always a higher power guiding our lives. I should have been open minded and noticed how good I had it. Knowing that this period of my life was not the hell I had perceived, but actually a blessing makes it possible for me to find the positive reasons for what is happening in my life today, and to replay other events in my life in a more positive way. Thus setting me up for a life full of great experiences.

     If you want to ensure you find a lifetime of happiness, you will have to find the good in all events in your life. It is not always easy, and over fifty years I’ve made many mistakes. But I also have had many successes. When I go back through my history, I have hurt people, been hurt by people, loved, hated, I’ve lived a full life, but now I can see how each event was actually a blessing guiding me to be who I am today. Keep looking for the good, it is all around us even when we don’t want to see it. 

     Your goal for today is to see one terrible event in your life, and find how there was actually good that came out of it, or an event taking place right now that you need to create some positive momentum over. Once you see the possibility of good, say thank you. Be grateful that the universe has your back. Focus on the small good that can be found and try to expand it until the whole event screams positivity. You can do it! Our minds are capable of amazing things and adding gratitude to the mix, makes all things possible. Have a great day!?

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Author: Stephen T. Radentz

     In 2004, having fallen and fractured my spine, I began a slow death spiral as an addict to legal opioids. For the next eight years, I battled depression and stomach ulcers. At the end of every month, I would face withdrawal symptoms, as well as the fear of running out of medication.      At one point, I was prescribed 1080 total pills every month! More than half were opioids, while the rest were prescribed to fix the problems opium was causing.      In 2012, I was rushed to the emergency room with bleeding ulcers. This happened again in 2014. I had lost almost 40 pounds during this time period. I was killing myself.      One night at the end of the month in 2014, I was facing imminent withdrawal sickness. Let me tell you: withdrawal sucks! I was not eligible for a refill but I needed the drugs. I grabbed a gun and went to a nearby pharmacy. I sat outside that store for about an hour. Finally, I decided that the best thing I could do would be to break away from the addictive drugs. I went home, went through some withdrawal sickness, and started planning my strategy.      It took me another two years to successfully get free. Eleven years after beginning my journey with opioids, I was able to beat the addiction through the use of medical marijuana, changing to a mostly natural-food diet, focusing on positivity and gratefulness, and getting outside in nature. I have been pharmaceutical free since 2016      Over several years of extensive research, I learned that medical marijuana could help with eliminating opioid addiction while reducing withdrawal symptoms and providing natural pain relief. I discovered that there was proven science backing up marijuana as medicine. I researched cannabis and hemp: their uses, benefits, and side effects, and how cannabinoids help the human body create homeostasis naturally, without side effects, addiction, or overdose issues.       As a master grower, I was aware of plant nutrient needs, and I realized that they are very similar to human nutrient needs. I began researching fruits, vegetables, and herbs extensively. Learning that nature provides all the nutrients a body needs. Consuming a variety of organic foods everyday will keep your body in a perfect state to fight off disease. As my body healed I was able to focus on my mind as well. You must; get your body right, to get your mind right, to get your life right.       I have also studied many current and historical positive thought mentors. Learning that, "we are what we think we are", as well as negative thoughts attract negative things, and positive thoughts attract positive outcomes.       I combined all of this knowledge to devise my theory on; The Three Life Centers of the body. Keeping these three areas balanced will keep your life balanced.      Medical marijuana helped reduce my drug withdrawal symptoms, enabling me to eliminate opioids, and I credit it with saving my life..      Because of my success eating and medicating naturally, maintaining positivity and gratitude, while embracing nature, I decided that I wanted to help educate others, and assist them with their own health and life issues.      I've been an advocate for medical marijuana legalization since 2014. I have lobbied senators, traveled statewide to speak on behalf of the cannabis community, and appeared in local forums, to share my journey and bring people's awareness to the benefits of medical marijuana, natural dieting, and positivity.       With this website, my goal is to dispel some myths, while educating you on a plant that has numerous health benefits (cannabis). Simplify your diet to achieve balance and good health through nature. Help you to create an environment of positivity and gratitude, and encourage you to get outside experience nature. I will even share some hidden gardening tips. 

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